Turn informal financial help into a clear written agreement — with limits, timelines, and protection for your own future.
Description:
Most parents don't decide to become their adult child's bank. It happens slowly. A car repair here. A phone bill there. Help with rent during a rough month that turns into help with rent every month.
This guide is about putting it on paper. An agreement doesn't make you a stricter parent. It makes you a clearer one — and clarity is what's been missing. Once the help is written down, the unspoken becomes spoken, the unlimited becomes finite, and the drift stops.
For parents who've quietly become the safety net and are ready to redesign the arrangement honestly.
What's Inside:
- The five components every agreement must contain
- How to set the amount: monthly cap vs. total ceiling
- What to cover — and what to explicitly exclude
- Conditions your child agrees to in return
- How to protect your own retirement and savings first
- A script for introducing the agreement without a fight
- Three worksheets: the Agreement Builder, your private Protection Page, and the signed Family Agreement
Write it down. Everything changes.